TREACHERY

WOW!!! WHERE DID THAT COME FROM????

So true. I've seen people do this. It's uncomfortable for everyone in the room.

Democrats are treasonous. No argument about it.

is it bad i thought you were about to address the bidens LMAO

A little lite in the loafers!

That is a largely cultural thing. In some cultures you can be quite rough with people who are close to you, and it is a sign of acceptance and that you care about them. The idea is that because you love, respect and care about each other you don't have to keep up appearances. If that's not your culture: don't do it. Obviously. Speaking generally, what you're saying is right. I'd just like to point out that some people do things different, and that works for them.

Great video but what a dramatic thumbnail lmao

Such a great message. This same topic was one of the highlights my wife and I took from pre-marital coaching with our Chaplain.

Excellent advice.

All this insight is great and all but when your a young guy, applying this is nearly impossible. People use a excuse that I’m the one who can’t take a joke or can’t vibe with them. Like memes and online venting is supposed to be a neutral ground for embarrassing me. I believe my parents now when they told me social media killed relationships.

Thank you Cody for reminding Me of just how important it is to uplift my wife. She has certainly been Gods blessing to me. 👍👍👍

My wife and I actually do say these things about each other, in jest, and it is not a breech of trust for us. If either of us felt differently, we are frank with each other. It is not hurtful for us, in fact we enjoy the play. If someone else were to make fun of me, my wife would tear them to pieces. We are an integral, unbreakable part of each other. But I still love your channel, man.

Good words!

If it hadn’t been for Mrs. W, there’d be glue EVERYWHERE

Very good video there lot stuff I learned from you over the years

There is always a reason why humans do what they do. I wonder if women put their men down because men that want to be married are a scarce resource these days. To survive in westernised urban places it may be necessary to devalue your mate so that they don't get stolen by someone else

All true, well said

REAL homesteading!

everything you described about treason sounds like trump to a t

In the past the UK dealt with Treason brilliantly, betraying your country should never be done (unless the leader of the country is someone like adolf hitler and wants to cause harm to anyone and everyone, or kim who controls EVERYTHING in which case, a new leader is needed and betraying them to get that wouldnt be the worst thing to do, unless your caught)... However, in the uk we now just give those who cause treason seats inside the parliament to help ruin i mean run, to help run the country. No i meant ruin.

You didn't touch on man guiding man. All men need to learn from other men. We are at its simplest all the same so learning from others can help us navigate rough waters and lessen the causality that we may cause or caused to us over the simplest misunderstanding. It is what you are doing but I think it is worth addressing. So who is a pillar in your life that you turn to for advice on relationship matters when you run into things. I have had a few who helped me with soild words of wisdom. Thanks good video good advice.

The wise woman builds her house But the foolish tears it down with her own hands. ~ Proverbs 14:1

Good points Cody. But it takes a lot of good luck to find a good women. There will always be some lucky winners and lots and lots of losers.

Wise words for sure. I think this recipe can present as different forms (not always husband and wife) but I like the view that balance and harmony in relationship is critical.

My parents have been together for a while most 40yrs.. mom recently got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer...you don't realize how dependent you are on each other until your told that your partner may not be here tomorrow. My dad is taking very hard .

Thank you for voicing this, ... I would never want to be judged for my worst day, and unfortunately, I’ve made the mistake you are speaking about. This is the truth, and there is a great opportunity for all of us to choose to live a better day starting today. This is great shared wisdom.

Another video with great content, you really nailed it...thank you.

God bless u. people have lost this committment to their spouse and family. love your channel

After separation, wife called my sister, my 9 yr old nephew picked up, and told her she is destroying her own children's lives, by making false allegations against me, so as to keep me out of their lives. Wiser words were never spoken, both by you Wranglerstar and my nephew.

They most definitely think about it. That's how they destroy their spouse.

This was probably the best video you've made.

Just the fact that he did something nice to go out of his way is awesome in its own. Most guys don't go out of the way to pick something up for there spouse.

You are correct. I’m 52 and am in love with my wife. We are equal.

On a side note, that backdrop looks nice.

What’s in the display case in the background? Very intrigued.

Amen Mr. W. I am here to tell you.

This is great advice. I pray that generations growing up now will hear this and adhere to this important insight.

These people have conflicting narratives. The Primacy of Freedom means that freedom comes first in order before anything including arbitrarily chosen Authority. The ideas of the Enlightenment era. Such as the idea that a natural God created us equal was the foundation stone. It was not to be an antithesis to any religion. Only a philosophical concept. Treachery. You got that right. Scribes and Pharisees wranglerstar scribes and Pharisees. By the measure you use.

Thanks for pointing this out Cody. I've done this and honestly ashamed of myself. Time to grow a little.

Perfectly said!!!

This is a great realization. Passive aggressive behavior towards a significant other. In your next video you and Mrs. W talk about comments from single dudes not being able to find a suitor. I acquired a female helper at work a couple months ago. This girl also cant find a suitable man. I dont really get it. She's smart, hard working, not afraid to get dirty(my trade is a mans work), she freakin beautiful. I know the problem is our society has been subverted from any morals but still, this girl would make a great mom too.

While watching this video this passage popped up in a recommended tweet: Two are better than one, because they have good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up. Ecclesiastes 4:9

I love this. Not why I started following you but by far my FAVORITE so far. ❤️ Thank you

excellent view on a relationship , ill pray that more humans will take this as advise to enjoy a bountiful fulfilled life experience .

Vilken snurrpelle. :)

37 year old batcher here.

this is the degradation of the father figure that has been going on for years. Poor dumb idiots that can barley make it through the day without drooling on themselves

Spot on. I'm learning so much from you. I really appreciate videos like this.

I used to second guess my best "gut instincts" & learned experience because family & friends would question my decisions in a way to make me feel unsure. My most liberating day was when I decided to stop second guess my common sense. I started to have huge success in life afterwards. Some insist on sabotaging for the sake of control.

Lesson learned...well taught

NOW THAT! is a cardinal rule in a relationship I am going to steal like a thief in the night. Now all I have to do is sell it ;-_-

Point On! Thank you for your encouraging words to the public. It's a subject that's not touched upon enough. I'll say this until the end " Behind every good man stands a great woman.

Good words. Now how to find that woman.😒

Very insightful.

And in the beginning god said "it is good". True then, true now.

There is a Scripture when God created man and Adam wasn’t complete without a woman by his side and he created Eve to give Adam his mate. In Genesis God saw Adam could not find a helper comparable with Adam so God caused Adam a deep sleep and God took a rib from Adam and he slept And God created woman and brought it to the man. And Adam said “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.” Genesis 2:20-23 and the one you quoted at the end of your video Genesis 2:23. This is from the Gideon’s Bible which just happened to be close to me. If either the husband or wife Harbor resentment or felt they have been wronged by their mate they need to work/talk about it between themselves and not put their mate down with others. It is so hurtful if our mate makes drogotory remarks in public. Tim La Haye and his wife wrote some great books on how to treat their husband and wife. I am sorry if I made any spelling errors. Cody, your uplifting remarks about your wife is one of the best things about your channel that I admire. It is great to see how you both treat each other.

There's a rule with your wife her design choices are always "right"

Great philosophy!!! 👍😁👍 ✝️

I don't disagree with you but at 51 myself & divorced from a 26 year marriage there is also a flip side. It is better to dwell alone in the wilderness than with an angry & contentious woman. Apparently even God knew picking the wrong spouse is akin to hell on earth.

Have married for over 40 years. Would never think to take someone’s side against her! It just won’t happen!

Don't agree at all, There's no need to lie to others about the good or bad parts of your significant other

So make your significant other look like something she/he is not in front of others? What the hell

Great advice. Great insight. The truth of your words rings out.

“How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days” Cute movie, but the fastest way to get someone to leave you is be critical and degrading of them. Marriage takes love and encouragement to thrive. In the end, you will both be happier. Good marriage advice from Cody today.

Thank you. The more of your videos I watch the more I agree with your knowledge... Hit 51 myself this year and actually lost my dad around my 50th birthday. It's hard to lose a loved one, even harder when you look up to them so much. Hearing these things you say reminds me of things he would say and I really must thank you. Keep doing what you do and pass on what you know and the world will be just a little bit brighter. God Bless you and yours and stay safe.

Good word

One of the better wrangalerstar videos, could not have said it better.

This should be shown to newly engaged people.

Amen! Well said 👍

yeah, treachery.

Thank you for the reminder of this very important message....even at the risk of being demonetized for the radical content.

I would have called them hop flower lights! Goes to show what perspective does.I love the Archy Bunker shoot down for 'treason'!

Rules for a man to figure out a woman: 1. Don't try. 2. See rule 1.

Great video!!!

behind every strong man, is an even stronger woman Cody.

There's a reason God called what was created for man a "help, like unto himself". She's supposed to HELP him, not harm or ruin him.

Great message. Thank you

Getting your own negativity under control is one of life's greatest challenges. First you have to know how you are negative, but there are plenty of ways to fool yourself about that.

If nothing else, you opened my eyes just a little wider today. Thank You Sir!

solid points

Who in the devil "dislikes" this......

In some respects I remain a broken man some 30 years after my marriage failed. I appreciate your willingness to share your life wisdom; it is very touching.

I agree with this. However, I think sometimes the husband 'being clueless' is actually something a woman finds cute. You know how you find flaws in your wife and they actually come together to make a good thing? They're little - let's say quirks - that make you happy because they're what make them who they are? I agree a husband or wife shouldn't belittle one another. But I think in this case it's sometimes just a bit of cute banter. I remember one time telling my friends how much I enjoyed my wife playing a video game because she's hopeless at it but still enjoys playing. I thought it was fun watching her fail but keep playing for the joy of it. Maybe the bigger point of her comment was 'bless his heart he tries, even if he fails'. And I would call that a good spirited comment. Even if it does seem a little bit critical or demeaning in character.

Bullseye friend, dead- center bullseye.

Very good! People can look at relationships in a worldly aspect all day, but until you implement what is in scripture, it will never be complete. Fantastic video that has planted seeds in many hearts no doubt!

I agree Cody! I think we have all seen it in person and while very often if the wife does it to the husband or the husband does it to the wife and it does come off as a joke and everyone laughs, I know it’s wrong. We’ve seen TV shows growing up like 3s Company and Mr and Mrs Roper were always humiliating each other sexually, the audience laugh track and people watching generally laughed. But, I remember my mother saying “That’s a terrible thing to say! I don’t want this show on in my house!”

A great encouragment and even a rebuke. Thank you.

well said Cody! That is the best advice I haver heard for husbands and wives in a long time. It sows a seed in your heart that if left unchecked can fester into resentment. God bless you and your family brother.

Amen brother.

Thank you for the reminder to build up my wife and support her in every way. I fully understand and appreciate the message.

You are describing American TV ads and sitcoms, movies etc. It's encouraged, promoted, and rewarded.

You west coast guys are too soft.

👍. Simple advice. Not something that we hear very often.

Hiw very bold you are to stick your toe into this pond. There will be many elitists in the comments after this one...

I feel like "treachery" and "treason" are strong words, but I completely agree with the principle you're conveying. I've done it by accident, it's easy to do. I once went to ship something my wife had packed and the guy working the counter at UPS wasn't pleased with how it was packed. I said something like, "Sorry, my wife packed it." and he replied, something along the lines of "she's not here". He was right, and good on him for saying it even though I was a customer and could have raised hell about this guy daring to talk to me like that or what not. I could have checked the packing before I took it in, and I didn't. I should have at least just said "sorry about that" and not mentioned my wife at all. If I wasn't pleased by being in that situation, I should take it up with her, not the UPS guy barking at me.

That dynamic is so quick and if you look at it deep enough, it is the only currency humans have to 'stay civil'. Is grinding each other down slowly so we can call it something. Its sad. I only have faith in the older tribes to surpass those dynamics. Nordic Pagans.

This was common at work from almost all of my coworkers. They put down there wives so much it made me sick. Sometimes furious. Luckily I don’t work with them anymore. I feel bad for their wives.

Yes, love should BUILD up never tare down.

Thank you for this. I married Saturday and this makes so much sense.

What a superb post. Right exactly on the money. You don't learn these things outside of church. Wisdom comes to those that seek it and this is a full bushel basket of truth.