This is a basic thing that everyone use to know and understand and agreed on. It is the modern progressive and democrat party that rails against this. Destroying the family and the culture and the legitimate happiness of people.
Mike Hunt
16 days ago
We are on our way to becoming millionaires, as partners in a business together. Yes, it definitely matters.
Mike Hunt
16 days ago
I have never ever been more happy or successful without the help and partnership I have with the woman I love.
Mike Hunt
16 days ago
Not even close.
Will Carver
26 days ago
I'm going through this now.. and that was very helpful
michael patrick
Month ago
Marriage is a bad idea for men these days. Not worth it.
Steveder Jones
2 months ago
Your wright.
Timothy Binkley
2 months ago
Wow ! I stand admonished ! You are so right ! Even though my wife and I have never intentionally ran each other down . We have done some jesting and you are right ! God bless you all.
g4tnew newg4t
2 months ago
Frowned upon... understatement.
g4tnew newg4t
2 months ago
Sent it to my wife... after she cheated.
Smith Farms
2 months ago
one more thought Cody, thank you and Mrs. W for being so humble and appropriate in everything you post. Too many (Christian even) youtube channels will pimp their wives for a thumbnail or views and it sickens me. I would love to have y'all as neighbors! Keep up the great content!
Smith Farms
2 months ago
I scratch my head at the thumbs down votes...but I guess that's where we're at in society today. Great words Cody, thanks. My pastor mentions often, a person will speak highly of things they love and never utter a negative comment. He was mainly talking about loving the church but it applies to all things we cherish. To those that vote thumbs down, go somewhere else. I have never voted thumbs down for a video to a channel I subscribe to.
doliverelliott
2 months ago
My wife is my best friend. I like her. I love trust and respect her. I seek her advice. I value her thoughts more than my own. She is worthy of more than I can provide. She gives more than I deserve and wants to give more. She makes me a better man.
jcnme2020
2 months ago
Excellent video Brother
Darren Deak
2 months ago
Agreed 💯
RPBCACUEAIIBH
2 months ago
Not too long ago I had a client trying to bond with me praising my work, and talking trash about his own son. One thing he didn't know is that my dad said the same damn things about me to someone in front of me... I didn't argue with the client I just decided I'm not gonna do business with someone talking trash about his own family and I gave him an offer he obviously wouldn't accept. ;)
baron1c
2 months ago
As a husband. I am terrible at picking out thinks I think my wife will like. My problem is logic. Women don’t use it. They operate on emotion.
James Lance
2 months ago
THIS IS WHY YOU ARE STILL HAPPILY MARRIED! I NEVER MARRIED BECAUSE I WAS AFRAID OF MARRYING A WOMAN WHO WOULD RUN ME DOWN & NOT BE SUPPORTIVE. I AM ABOUT TO BE 63 YO & HAVE LEARNED TO BE HAPPY ALONE! GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILY & YOUR NEW HOME! 🎅🌅🗽
Bob Bell
2 months ago
Read Ecclesiastes. It will tell you everything you need to know
Osher Gutnick
2 months ago
Hi cody you were looking for some scripture... Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (9) Two are better off than one, in that they have greater benefit from their efforts. (10) For should they fall, one can raise the other; but woe to one who is alone and falls with no companion to raise them up!
Michael Grinder
2 months ago
Well said , well spoken sir.
Mechanic D
2 months ago
I agree to this 100%, the sad thing is everyone around me does this and its just sad.....
Reverend Christine
2 months ago
God Bless you and your wife.
Chris Grisham
2 months ago
“Ten fold” It’s a very good thing when the Lord can use you to speak to others about his principles, in the grafted word, that’s able to save our souls... “When you don’t not allow your wife to speak into your life, you are only using half the brain the Lord gave you” Appreciate your character and work ethics!
Swan Hill
2 months ago
I was raised this way. I was taught this exact principle, and I like the way you’ve put it-treachery.
Donna Bell
3 months ago
WOW!!! WHERE DID THAT COME FROM????
plsbqwhy8t nthabak
3 months ago
So true. I've seen people do this. It's uncomfortable for everyone in the room.
daytonamon40
3 months ago
is it bad i thought you were about to address the bidens LMAO
Ken Ostermeier
3 months ago
A little lite in the loafers!
Wranglerstar
3 months ago
You’d know
emikke
3 months ago
That is a largely cultural thing. In some cultures you can be quite rough with people who are close to you, and it is a sign of acceptance and that you care about them. The idea is that because you love, respect and care about each other you don't have to keep up appearances. If that's not your culture: don't do it. Obviously. Speaking generally, what you're saying is right. I'd just like to point out that some people do things different, and that works for them.
ZACK
3 months ago
Great video but what a dramatic thumbnail lmao
Morgan W
3 months ago
Such a great message. This same topic was one of the highlights my wife and I took from pre-marital coaching with our Chaplain.
Johnny
3 months ago
Excellent advice.
lord kanti
3 months ago
All this insight is great and all but when your a young guy, applying this is nearly impossible. People use a excuse that I’m the one who can’t take a joke or can’t vibe with them. Like memes and online venting is supposed to be a neutral ground for embarrassing me. I believe my parents now when they told me social media killed relationships.
McD131
3 months ago
Thank you Cody for reminding Me of just how important it is to uplift my wife. She has certainly been Gods blessing to me. 👍👍👍
Rebel on a Trail
3 months ago
My wife and I actually do say these things about each other, in jest, and it is not a breech of trust for us. If either of us felt differently, we are frank with each other. It is not hurtful for us, in fact we enjoy the play. If someone else were to make fun of me, my wife would tear them to pieces. We are an integral, unbreakable part of each other. But I still love your channel, man.
Jonas Libbrecht
3 months ago
Good words!
kca1031
3 months ago
If it hadn’t been for Mrs. W, there’d be glue EVERYWHERE
king Morales
3 months ago
Very good video there lot stuff I learned from you over the years
Rachel Richards
3 months ago
There is always a reason why humans do what they do. I wonder if women put their men down because men that want to be married are a scarce resource these days. To survive in westernised urban places it may be necessary to devalue your mate so that they don't get stolen by someone else
George Stokes
3 months ago
All true, well said
Rainer Detering
3 months ago
REAL homesteading!
Anthony
3 months ago
In the past the UK dealt with Treason brilliantly, betraying your country should never be done (unless the leader of the country is someone like adolf hitler and wants to cause harm to anyone and everyone, or kim who controls EVERYTHING in which case, a new leader is needed and betraying them to get that wouldnt be the worst thing to do, unless your caught)... However, in the uk we now just give those who cause treason seats inside the parliament to help ruin i mean run, to help run the country. No i meant ruin.
Danny Hoermle
3 months ago
You didn't touch on man guiding man. All men need to learn from other men. We are at its simplest all the same so learning from others can help us navigate rough waters and lessen the causality that we may cause or caused to us over the simplest misunderstanding. It is what you are doing but I think it is worth addressing. So who is a pillar in your life that you turn to for advice on relationship matters when you run into things. I have had a few who helped me with soild words of wisdom. Thanks good video good advice.
Liora Jimenez
3 months ago
The wise woman builds her house But the foolish tears it down with her own hands. ~ Proverbs 14:1
Davy Jones
3 months ago
Good points Cody. But it takes a lot of good luck to find a good women. There will always be some lucky winners and lots and lots of losers.
Miles Holland
3 months ago
Wise words for sure. I think this recipe can present as different forms (not always husband and wife) but I like the view that balance and harmony in relationship is critical.
wackyspazthe3rd
3 months ago
My parents have been together for a while most 40yrs.. mom recently got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer...you don't realize how dependent you are on each other until your told that your partner may not be here tomorrow. My dad is taking very hard .
Michael McMahon
3 months ago
Thank you for voicing this, ... I would never want to be judged for my worst day, and unfortunately, I’ve made the mistake you are speaking about. This is the truth, and there is a great opportunity for all of us to choose to live a better day starting today. This is great shared wisdom.
BTJ
3 months ago
Another video with great content, you really nailed it...thank you.
Joe Anonemouse
3 months ago
God bless u. people have lost this committment to their spouse and family. love your channel
g4tnew newg4t
3 months ago
After separation, wife called my sister, my 9 yr old nephew picked up, and told her she is destroying her own children's lives, by making false allegations against me, so as to keep me out of their lives. Wiser words were never spoken, both by you Wranglerstar and my nephew.
g4tnew newg4t
3 months ago
They most definitely think about it. That's how they destroy their spouse.
JesusFreak1924
3 months ago
This was probably the best video you've made.
Kimballized
3 months ago
Just the fact that he did something nice to go out of his way is awesome in its own. Most guys don't go out of the way to pick something up for there spouse.
beardedbuzzard
3 months ago
You are correct. I’m 52 and am in love with my wife. We are equal.
Charlie Smith
3 months ago
On a side note, that backdrop looks nice.
TheFourthHorseman
3 months ago
What’s in the display case in the background? Very intrigued.
Ben There
3 months ago
Amen Mr. W. I am here to tell you.
Josh Irving
3 months ago
This is great advice. I pray that generations growing up now will hear this and adhere to this important insight.
Robert Scott
3 months ago
These people have conflicting narratives. The Primacy of Freedom means that freedom comes first in order before anything including arbitrarily chosen Authority. The ideas of the Enlightenment era. Such as the idea that a natural God created us equal was the foundation stone. It was not to be an antithesis to any religion. Only a philosophical concept. Treachery. You got that right. Scribes and Pharisees wranglerstar scribes and Pharisees. By the measure you use.
rahj21
3 months ago
Thanks for pointing this out Cody. I've done this and honestly ashamed of myself. Time to grow a little.
J L
3 months ago
Perfectly said!!!
Bacon, Eatmore
3 months ago
This is a great realization. Passive aggressive behavior towards a significant other. In your next video you and Mrs. W talk about comments from single dudes not being able to find a suitor. I acquired a female helper at work a couple months ago. This girl also cant find a suitable man. I dont really get it. She's smart, hard working, not afraid to get dirty(my trade is a mans work), she freakin beautiful. I know the problem is our society has been subverted from any morals but still, this girl would make a great mom too.
Golden Renaissance Productions
3 months ago
While watching this video this passage popped up in a recommended tweet: Two are better than one, because they have good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up. Ecclesiastes 4:9
Rebecca Lynn TenBrink
3 months ago
I love this. Not why I started following you but by far my FAVORITE so far. ❤️ Thank you
hillbilly Yo
3 months ago
excellent view on a relationship , ill pray that more humans will take this as advise to enjoy a bountiful fulfilled life experience .
Free Will
3 months ago
Vilken snurrpelle. :)
timbo peters
3 months ago
37 year old batcher here.
Chris T
3 months ago
this is the degradation of the father figure that has been going on for years. Poor dumb idiots that can barley make it through the day without drooling on themselves
Daan B.
3 months ago
Spot on. I'm learning so much from you. I really appreciate videos like this.
Todd Shepherd
3 months ago
I used to second guess my best "gut instincts" & learned experience because family & friends would question my decisions in a way to make me feel unsure. My most liberating day was when I decided to stop second guess my common sense. I started to have huge success in life afterwards. Some insist on sabotaging for the sake of control.
Tom from Ohio
3 months ago
Lesson learned...well taught
Pax Inviscis
3 months ago
NOW THAT! is a cardinal rule in a relationship I am going to steal like a thief in the night. Now all I have to do is sell it ;-_-
Christopher Collins
3 months ago
Point On! Thank you for your encouraging words to the public. It's a subject that's not touched upon enough. I'll say this until the end " Behind every good man stands a great woman.
John Ware
3 months ago
Very insightful.
zachary holbert
3 months ago
And in the beginning god said "it is good". True then, true now.
MAE HAY
3 months ago
There is a Scripture when God created man and Adam wasn’t complete without a woman by his side and he created Eve to give Adam his mate. In Genesis God saw Adam could not find a helper comparable with Adam so God caused Adam a deep sleep and God took a rib from Adam and he slept And God created woman and brought it to the man. And Adam said “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.” Genesis 2:20-23 and the one you quoted at the end of your video Genesis 2:23. This is from the Gideon’s Bible which just happened to be close to me. If either the husband or wife Harbor resentment or felt they have been wronged by their mate they need to work/talk about it between themselves and not put their mate down with others. It is so hurtful if our mate makes drogotory remarks in public. Tim La Haye and his wife wrote some great books on how to treat their husband and wife. I am sorry if I made any spelling errors. Cody, your uplifting remarks about your wife is one of the best things about your channel that I admire. It is great to see how you both treat each other.
Chris Spencer
3 months ago
There's a rule with your wife her design choices are always "right"
Rick Hammar
3 months ago
I don't disagree with you but at 51 myself & divorced from a 26 year marriage there is also a flip side. It is better to dwell alone in the wilderness than with an angry & contentious woman. Apparently even God knew picking the wrong spouse is akin to hell on earth.
Uss JimmyCarter
3 months ago
Have married for over 40 years. Would never think to take someone’s side against her! It just won’t happen!
FaithfulMC
3 months ago
Don't agree at all, There's no need to lie to others about the good or bad parts of your significant other
FaithfulMC
3 months ago
So make your significant other look like something she/he is not in front of others? What the hell
MrRayqwik
3 months ago
Great advice. Great insight. The truth of your words rings out.
Dodge 78
3 months ago
“How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days” Cute movie, but the fastest way to get someone to leave you is be critical and degrading of them. Marriage takes love and encouragement to thrive. In the end, you will both be happier. Good marriage advice from Cody today.
Joseph Renna
3 months ago
Thank you. The more of your videos I watch the more I agree with your knowledge... Hit 51 myself this year and actually lost my dad around my 50th birthday. It's hard to lose a loved one, even harder when you look up to them so much. Hearing these things you say reminds me of things he would say and I really must thank you. Keep doing what you do and pass on what you know and the world will be just a little bit brighter. God Bless you and yours and stay safe.
Roy Rodgers
3 months ago
Good word
Ken Stout
3 months ago
One of the better wrangalerstar videos, could not have said it better.
Patrick Z
3 months ago
This should be shown to newly engaged people.
matthew hoppel
3 months ago
Amen! Well said 👍
JohnstonPettigrew
3 months ago
yeah, treachery.
Thomas Cronin
3 months ago
Thank you for the reminder of this very important message....even at the risk of being demonetized for the radical content.
Tim Kirkpatrick
3 months ago
I would have called them hop flower lights! Goes to show what perspective does.I love the Archy Bunker shoot down for 'treason'!
Bane
3 months ago
Rules for a man to figure out a woman: 1. Don't try. 2. See rule 1.
Yebo Screbo
3 months ago
Huh? I’ve heard that bs my whole life.. “women are so complicated blah blah blah”. It isn’t true! Once you realize that women are children in adults bodies it all clicks into place. Women are very easy to figure out. 1. They want what they can’t have 2. They don’t want to take responsibility for their actions 3. They use their biological assets to get somebody else to take care of business. That’s it.
veronica pace
3 months ago
listen carefully
Tot Johnson
3 months ago
Great video!!!
Trevor Potts
3 months ago
behind every strong man, is an even stronger woman Cody.
AZStarYT
3 months ago
There's a reason God called what was created for man a "help, like unto himself". She's supposed to HELP him, not harm or ruin him.
mattvanbogart
3 months ago
Great message. Thank you
obyvatel
3 months ago
Getting your own negativity under control is one of life's greatest challenges. First you have to know how you are negative, but there are plenty of ways to fool yourself about that.
Shawn D Sinclair
3 months ago
If nothing else, you opened my eyes just a little wider today. Thank You Sir!
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