The Real Reason My Subs Are Seething Mad

what video does this refer to?

I agree with you, it also says that we husband's we be judged at a higher standard just as a employer anyone who has control or power over others ! This is my inerstanding !

What's the back story? is there a video showing this incedent ?

Some people just aren’t raised that way. I have 2 steel rods fused to my spine but I’m the type of guy that would still shovel myself out. I’ve had doctors tell me to go on disability for years and I refuse to because that’s not how I was raised

i agree with you cody

I didn't see your kid hopping out to help? He stayed inside with the girls.

Don’t apologize for being a good man.

It's great that you have helped, some would have left him /her stuck. You have learnt experience how to get a vehicle out of a dich, some have not, its a big learning curve. That person has now learnt how to do that also they will know how to help. Standing back can be embarrassed. Keep up the good work.

Cody, you spoke many good words or truth and wisdom. I agree nothing worse than a man that will stand there and watch you work when he is capable of helping. NO apologies were needed. God Bless you and the family.

I am with you on this one. These effeminate males today make me mad.

Cody, I was a professional long haul truck driver for decades. Back 'in the day', a truck driver almost never passed up an opportunity to help the stranded. I found from this experience that whatever you do, know that it's a form of charity. One MUST give with an open hand & heart, expecting thanks or help is too much. Often I would grumble to myself that I was a fool to help out, but then the next time I would feel good about it for weeks. Just remember the good.

Simple thumb 👍. Simple two thumbs up 👍👍. I went from your videos on batteries to this one. Will watch again. You have a new subscriber.

The road to hell is paved by good intentions. Remember this.

Love it

Really don’t blame you that would have upset me too. The problem is they are not men they are still boys. Being a men has to be a decision that a boy makes then he does everything he can to learn the way. Number assess yourself and make good changes not dumb ones.

i have to agree with you on this. Don't just watch, Help out after all if someone is going out of way to help. Help them help you.

Wrangler, dw abt toxic people,

A lot of people are using being useless as an excuse to be lazy, as if not bothering to learn things means they are some sort of victim who deserves help. Also If someone helps you I think you should at least ask if there is anything you can do to help them.

I completely agree Cody. Complete lack of respect. City dweller should have never left his cozy culdesac with his little Corolla. We were lucky. I too was raised by a man who could literally fix anything and expected me to learn. We are blessed.

Dictators are hung, leaders are praised!

You’re a good teacher, the world woulda charged him a arm n leg! Don’t apologize for teaching him what’s right!

I forgive you cause thats exactly what I would have said. I can't deal with laziness!

Help is when you and someone else accomplish a goal together. A savior now that’s someone who completely accomplishes the goal regardless of participation of both parties. There’s only ONE savior and it’s not any of us. We are not saviors but we are helpers and teachers. So if someone helps you then you should prepare to work to learn how to be able to get yourself out of the situation should you be caught up again or help the next person in the same type of predicament.

no apology needed.

I agree with most of this but me and my gf work together as a team I'd say were equal we help each other out

I figured this was the case. In the video it does come off as harsh but that is primarily because with the few jump cuts and they are unstuck it isn't apparent to the viewer the lack of initiative of the guy who was stuck. I've been in that situation before and instead of some team work and appreciation of another man you realize they don't care at all.

First off, a man would have at least tried to do it himself first and then asked how he could help when you got there, not just stand around. Not everyone would have known what to do to get out of that situation but at least take that as an opportunity to learn. My whole problem with that situation, is that a good MAN would never have put his family in any sort of situation that he couldn't get out of, or at least have been prepared for. It would have been a lot different situation if he had everything done and just need you to hook up and pull him out. No need to apologize for helping someone else who isn't prepared to take care of his family.

The guy should have helped Cody help him.

It's your channel say what you feel. I would have probably said worse lol. I'd rather get told to stop helping then to stand there watch.

Some of these modern men did not grow up with fathers or grandfathers to teach them how to handle these type of situations. I grew up with neither, but was lucky enough to have an uncle who took an interest in me. I’ve started watching your channel to learn some of the things that he couldn’t teach me in the moment. Your a great teacher, ask the lord to give you the patience to teach that man how to handle the situation, instead of trying to handle it all yourself and getting overly frustrated.

One more comment too much patience emboldens morons Brother don't stop being a man.

AMEN!!!! Agree 100% with your thoughts on leadership. The reason the world is in the shape it is, is because humanity has chosen to ignore the things God ordained.

I agree with Roger , even if I had zero skills my manners or up bringing would have made me feel guilty for not doing it myself already or at minimum did it myself if ,,, I had enough knowledge to do so, but as Roger pointed out (doing nothing speaks very loudly to one's fiber )

Loved your talk Cody, and especially with that beautiful stream flowing in the background.

My biggest problem with some of this rhetoric is that some people take skills that are completely useless to the market and pretend like they are manly. While disparaging people who have skills that are extremely valuable in the market as effeminate, soy boys. You guys are only hurting yourselves and other guys out there with that attitude.

Totally agree. Nothing worse than a guy with no initiative. Typical representative of the demasculinization of today’s male. I think I would have reacted even more salty than you did.

Amen Cody, 🙏

There is a great book called Man Interrupted 'Why Young Men Are Struggling & What We Can Do About It' by Philip Zimbardo & Nikita Coulombe which goes over a lot of the reasoning behind why modern-day men are turning out the way they are (less masculine). It has a lot to do with our educational system, fatherless homes, no longer having rights of passage into manhood, and various other aspects we tend to overlook. I like to say we have a lot of boys in men's bodies these days. It does not matter much about age as you can be 50 years old but still be but a boy, then, on the other hand, you can be 20 and be a man. I highly suggest this book as it will open your eyes to a lot of interesting points of view.

Love this video you should do a video talking about you growing up and how you were raised and maybe your folks.

I totally agree with what you said, I'm tired of useless people just expecting people to do things for them.

The man who makes an 8 minute video saying he's been treated too harshly in the comments section is saying that modern men are too sensitive. You're a joke, and I didn't even have to get to your "traditional family" comments. The real reason America has the great outdoors it does is because people like you can't live alongside other people. So, you retreat to your back 40 and sigh longingly for the time when men could get along with the assistance of the ubiquitous threat of violence. You are the one who retreated because of inability, not the other way around.

I agree with what you’re saying. If it was me stuck and I was to not assist I would feel as if I was tacking advantage of you and that’s not right. I raised myself without a father and am self reliant my hole life. I do unto others as I would want done unto me. And find there is always situations to learn from as he could have if he would have offered assistance. Word of advice to the youth.. don’t think you know everything you’ll miss a chance to learn something.

Cool, as a southerner with a Subie I hope you'd cut me some slack cause I def don't know how to drive in ice/snow! As for the guy not helping...maybe needed directing or wanted to stay outta your way! I grew up with your similar concept of gender roles but I am amazed now how many women, moms have become doctors, pilots, CEOs, etc...and their husbands stay-at-home dads!

I've learned everything about being a man from watching you I didn't grow up with my dad and I found your channel and ive been subscribed ever since

I think what you are trying to say Cody is someone is responsible for taking care of certain things. Yeah. I get it.

I agree.

God bless you

Thats the diffeance between a city boy and a country man or even Y2K and younger men

No apology needed, your comments were spot on.

i agree with you, that douch shouldve asked how to help even if he didnt know how

I understand the frustration. I look at it like when I let someone in traffic and they can’t even give a thank you wave! It is just the simple things I think would make a world of difference

I agree 110% Real men are disapearing!

The thing I'm most annoyed by with what you said is your assumptions. You called the man "useless" and unattractive to women, yet you have no idea who he is or what kind of person he is. Your "high horse" attitude really bothered me in that clip and in my opinion it's none of your business how he should react in these situations. It was nice of you to help him but the massive judging attitude overshadowed it. Maybe he wasn't lucky enough to have a father to teach him what to do in that situation.

No offense taken. Ive been aware of the decline of our society from the lack of ambition to lack of knowledge, ability, courage, it is pervasive and is going to keep going until a few generations from now. Who knows what will come in the interim.

First thing I'd do is ask you what I can do to assist

I’m with you! Most men today are totally defeated when they reach the slightest problem. Then they wait for someone else to come save their day for them

You appreciate your wife, plan and simple.

I understand your reasoning. It is frustrating. You should have asked, "Hey, you want to dig this snow out underneath the car while I get the pull rope ready? That why you'll know next time." Sometime if take you initiative it will work. At least at the end of it, you'll know you tried your best. I think God would like that.

I agree completely brother. Nothing bothers me more than seeing grown men on the side of the road with a man in a uniform changing his tire for him. You said it best when you said privileged.

Cody, you are absolutely right on this and no need to apologize for your observation and evaluation of this person. The girl was at least willing to try and help the best she could. The oh so sad truth is this is a whole generation and mind set that surrounds us . Thank you for having a manly view that is so lacking these days. We enjoy your work.keep it up and God bless you and your family.

Not a lack of understanding so much as those people have the mindset of a child. If you have been paying attention to your young children you will see the common behavior and how a child's view on life overlaps these "adults". Eg. Wait in the car for a parent to fix problem. Also with all criticisms cited by Wranglerstar.

Your a good man....you have a good wife, family and lead a good example that we can all can learn from. Thanks.

...did you delete that video or what is the video title ?

His girlfriend was the one asking questions, she was the one thinking about making the car lighter, I understood that she took initiative part. I agree that it's frustrating. The only thing I was frustrated about was not watching the video because of the title and that took away from the whole great time with your family that's all. Just move on

I hope I don't get banned for this but why not pull him aside and say "hey man here is whats up". I have a technology degree, I try to learn about fixing and maintaining my own vehicle but sometimes I screw up and need help. I often worry I am more in the way then helping, and while I do try to ask if there is anything I should specifically be doing to help sometimes people are not always communicative or clear. I feel like this could of been a good place to give him personal advice instead of blast him on youtube. I respect you for helping though. "Today you, tomorrow me."

Your dialog is spot on! When it comes to young men learning necessary life skills, first and foremost they have got to have a mentor or role model who is willing to teach them and share all that knowledge. And then the young man has got to have the "WANT TO" or desire to learn those life skills... Many of us are so blessed that we had those older men like our dads and others who made sure we leaned so many skills.

Don't sweat it Cody. I've got no pity for spectators. Jeriah helped you and that guy watched. That tells me all I need to know about a man. Even if he wasn't an adult, I knew better than to stand there and watch someone else do all the work at a young age.

Well said Cody great job I strongly agree with you

Not too hard on him at all. He's not a man.

Sounds like your running out of things to talk about.

My husband wanted me to comment that he is completely and 100% in agreement with you, and said you shouldn’t apologize for anything

I'm with you on this one. I thought it was good ole tough love.

I showed this to my parents and they kicked me out because of my beliefs I’m 17 so hear we go haha

What's the big deal. You've been judgmental, smug, and self-righteous all along, and if anything you have mellowed significantly over the years. You are who you are and I would have expected no less of a tirade from you. All of those snarky but truthful words being said: I agree, what do women see in a man of that caliber. You take good care of your family and you have very high expectations of yourself and everyone else. No brainer :-)

I was confused why you were talking about how can anyone be attracted to someone that cant get out of a ditch i didnt understand what that has to due with one person being attracted to another but now when you told the whole story i tottaly agree.

This East Coast guy agrees with you. I'll give anyone the shirt off my back and help out. However if I feel like my help etc is being used / abused or not equitable then I'll be mad. If you want me to help out, then you as the person asking should be helping out as well. Forget about it.

I agree with you.

Quickly Wranglerstar speak the truth BROTHER. These men today are useless; can’t change a tire, check oil, hunt, start a fire in a BBQ cooker let alone walk more than a mile.

You called it , looking for a girl friend.

You are so correct

Right on man!

Amen Cody!

Ah, look...Christians gonna judge (especially the women). Just do what you do, be a good bloke & keep on keeping on; people are always gonna judge (especially Christian women). Leave the Karens to their own devices, what is due onto them will be due in fair time. (Just a simple anti Religion, anti atheism & anti douche bag type bloke from Down Under checkin' in)

I was wonder if he didn’t want to be on film or if he didn’t want to help U help him. I am with u on this one Cody. It’s grown man business and some people will just never understand

Maybe the guy was just totally inexperienced in driving off the paved road and lacking in mechanical aptitude. He was fortunate enough to have someone like you come to his aid, and could see that you handled the situation very professionally and felt it best to just stay out of your way. Odd that he didn't ask what he could do to help. You didn't mention if he at least gave you a heartfelt thank you?

I fully understand where you were coming from with that comment about that guy and others like him. He could have said, “I’ve never had this happen before; teach me what to do and how can I help you now?” People are getting to be more lazy and and unwilling to learn the things they need to know to help themselves. I guess that is why so many people want to have the government fix all of their problems for them.

Thank You For Your Video And Comments !!!

That river is just gorgeous @WranglerStar

I agree with you cody the guy was lazy @WranglerStar

Good video Cody @WranglerStar

Don't be sorry. The title of "Man" is earned. Male does not equal Man! Men carry the burden of responsibility and accountability. I have two male sons, ages 4 and 6. They are boys and will earn the privilege to be called Men at some point in their lives.

Alright enough talk, swing a fly through that run!

You were justified chief

I volunteer to go out and pull people out on off-road recovery groups. I have driven for a couple hours in the middle of the night, risking myself and equipment. I’ve witnessed this same attitude, where they didn’t help, didn’t do anything but wait in the truck until someone showed up to do the work.

I wouldn’t be sorry nor would I think twice about it.

You were fully justified. You ALWAYS help in anyway you can.

I don't think you were to hard on him... in fact. If it was me i would have said something to him.

January 25, 2010 I was in Beach, North Dakota. Definitely not the beach. I rolled into the Flying J with an 18 wheeler during a snow storm. The state shut the interstate down for two days due to high winds that didn't allow for safe travel despite blue skies. The snow banks where blowing up to 8 feet high across the interstate. The final day of the shut down I grabbed a shovel and cleared from the drives to about 6 feet or so in front of the truck. Woke up the next morning and interstate was reopen. However, there was a 4 foot high snow drift across the front of dozens of trucks. There was a Holland driver who was pulling trucks out for $20 a pop. Dude made serious money. He refused to charge me. I asked what makes me so special? He said, yesterday you were literally the only driver with a shovel. You not only cleared out your own tractor, but along sides of both next to you. Did you charge those drivers for that? I said, no sir, wasn't thinking of that. He yanked me through the drift, and refused any form of payment. This is also a lesson in the fact that, no matter what you're doing, someone is watching. Make sure you're integrity is showing.

Stand your ground! I was taught by my Gramps and Dad that you learn something new every day, if not then it's a wasted day. They also passed down all their skills to us kids; as we have done with our children. I thought it was another girl in the video due to lack of effort given to assist! What a shame, and embarrassment to the female that you helped. Part of our jobs as leaders of our families is to provide, protect, and lead. This is done spiritually and physically.

Are people mad you have an opinion about someone? They can get bent. The fact of the matter is , we have alot of completely useless people around these days. And that's fine , it means we have been able to provide for them enough to where they are completely helpless and useless.